Me: What are you going to do when you finish school at 18? Go to university? Or perhaps take a year off and go travelling…?
Him:Β A year?? Mum, I’m taking a decade off!
Me: What are you going to do when you finish school at 18? Go to university? Or perhaps take a year off and go travelling…?
Him:Β A year?? Mum, I’m taking a decade off!
The idea of a gap year is great–but more than one? Meh.
Then again, I could not WAIT to get to Yale after graduating high school. π
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My boy certainly marches to the beat of his own drum… I don’t know where he gets it π
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There is a young man with ambitions! Aim high.
And the phrase I read once in a novel may apply here. “I don’t care what it is he does with his gap time, as long as he is either earning or learning.”
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He is absolutely determined to both earn & learn- that is a great phrase I’m going to text to him immediately, thank you! ππΌπ
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Hahaha…
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Ha ha. My son always told me he wasn’t leaving home until he was 43. You’ll be glad to know that didn’t happen.
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Oh goodness, I couldn’t handle that! But just up the street would be perfect π.
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Ha ha – well he moved west first, but eventually did settle down the street…and then I moved away…ah life.
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That’s the spirit! π
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Yeah, secretly-proud Mama loving her independently-minded son π
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πππ I live for these exchanges!
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Bless ya! Yeah, I gotta do one a week for sure, people love them (& so do I) π
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I like your son he’s hilarious…
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Thanks Marts, he is indeed, I just wrote these posts exactly as they happen ππΌ
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Sounds like an awesome plan to me!! Down with school!! *she chants in whispers so her teaching degree doesn’t feel sad*
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Hahaha- yes, it’s a fine balance for me with getting him to finish school, while at the same time agreeing with him that the University of Real Life will teach him a lot more… π
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Haha yeah! I hate the over reliance on a university degree though. Especially in Canada. We have college and university and I once had a “friend” who refused to date anyone who didn’t go to university. There are so many jobs and learning styles not conducive to that environment. So many other options!
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I went right to college and then did take 10 years off. Make sure he knows how hard it is to go back after that much time and how much harder it is to make friends that are 10 years younger than you and how much harder the classes seem after all that time.
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That’s a good point Julie; I think he will study further, but probably something quite specialized rather than just a general arts degree; he IS v motivated & entrepreneurial as well π¬π
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Good to hear. After my 10 years off, I finally got my psychology degree. I use it all the time with my clients too.
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Haaappy days !
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I kind of approve. With hindsight I think it unreasonable to expect someone of 18 to choose their future career. I did not have a clue at 18 so worked in a factory lab for a few years before doing my degree and I am still not sure my eventual career was the right one for me.
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Yup, I must admit I approve too- I only worked out what I really wanted to do at 28. I know he’ll never just sit around watching TV; he’s not that kinda kid. I just had to share his utter confidence in being done with school as soon as possible. Thanks for commenting Arty : )
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Yep my sons are 21 & 23 still in their gap decades lol
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Hahaha, good to know it’s not just me with one of those kinds of sons! Thanks heaps for commenting, G : )
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