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Published on March 24, 2025
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From rockstar to writer: the return

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Hello lovelies, how are you all?

Having just spent 3 months very focused on my punk cabaret band Mutton, including touring to 5 different venues, and being away from my beloved rainforest home for WEEKS, I’ve had an epiphany!

I’m still a writer, even when I’m not writing.

Which means I’m also still a blogger, connected to this community, albeit while it constantly morphs into something new.

Of course, a writer needs to write, and practice their craft; gone are the days of my thrice-weekly blogging, and the constant commenting and connecting we all used to do here. Part of me misses those days… but they were also a particular time, pre-Covid, pre-TikTok; we are ALL different since then.

In full slam mode late last year

So I write killer arts grants, for myself and others. I write songs now. I’ve entered a few Slam Poetry competitions, and will continue.

I still write in my journal (although not daily).

Last month I kinda wrote a love letter.

Sure, I’m not published, other than a couple of short stories in anthologies years ago, and I think I’m way too lazy to actually write a book, although I’ve tried a few times.

I have several friends who are ‘proper authors’, and I so admire their tenacity; a little envious of their commitment and subsequent rewards.

But that’s just not me.

I’m a devout reader, and always have been. Proud daughter of a librarian mother, my extended family all has a love of books, with several published authors amongst us; my son ‘Nearly25Now’ asked for everyone’s favourite, life-changing book as his 18th birthday gifts.

My bookcase at home, need another one

I love nothing better than being out at a gathering and thinking:

“Oooh, I’ve had enough of this, I’m going home to read my book.”

Who else does that?

So it was with absolute delight that the epiphany settled upon me:

I’m a writer, and I need to write more again.

I have nearly 1500 followers here- I’d guess that maybe 5-10 of you are still actually interested in me! That’s probably the number of blogs I still read myself… although I am finding new ones on Substack too.

But you know what? It can’t be about the statistics. If the world is sliding into a Tech Bro oligarchy/racist/homophobic/environmental disaster/nightmare, I REFUSE TO BECOME A COMMODIFICATION.

Post-show midnight punk delight

Yes, I’m utterly priviledged: my home is secure, my health seems good, my chosen family is solid. I can make Art for the joy, not the financial necessity. And while no publisher will knock on my door to turn bone&silver into a mini-series (*cue deep chuckles), I don’t give a shit.

I’m back, because I love to write, I love to read, and I truly, madly, deeply love to write.

With deep gratitude for words, & the Dewey Decimal System, G xO

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  3. cathytea's avatar
    cathytea says

    Yeah, writing is simply part of us! I have a friend who was talking to me about being a poet, then he discovered that, in retirement, he actually wanted to be an electrician (for Habitat for Humanity)–but he then discovered that he can still be a poet! Always joyful to read your posts.

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      bone&silver says

      Aww thanks for reading, & I so love that you get it! And good on your friend for being all the parts of himself he can be, for the greater good 🙏🏼. Thank you for feeling the joy ☺️

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    Forestwood says

    Writing is in my DNA and it sounds like it is in yours too. I seem to write something every day, but not always. I was super grateful for blogging during Covid and the 14 years I have been on WordPress. So many great conversations and it even got me a paid writing gig. Life changes though and many have left the blogging scene. Glad that you are still around despite getting into the music scene. Well done on Mutton. Love the name! All the best from Qld.

    Amanda

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      bone&silver says

      Thanks Amanda; yes, blogging here has helped me through so many ups and downs, & they certainly never stop do they? But yes, times here have changed, & I’m curious to hang out a bit more.

      Thank you for appreciating Mutton! Isn’t it a great name? We got it immediately. You can find us on Insta as mutton_the_duo if you want to follow along 😘🤘🏿

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    LadyJay says

    I love that your Son asked for his beloveds life changing reads…my Son just turned 18 and he just wanted dosh £ 🤣…far from your Son…although he is a talented musician who just doesn’t realise it yet 😀…great to meet you 👋

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      bone&silver says

      Hi there, thank you for reading & commenting 😃
      Oh my son wanted money too… but I was very impressed with the whole book thing, & very proud. May your son follow his musical talents- please encourage him in any way you can (I wish my Mum had encouraged me).

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      bone&silver says

      Thanks Andrea- yes, he’s a smart fellow that son of mine- truly no idea where he got the idea! Got some great books though, & has worked his way through them ☺️

      It feels good to be back, thank you for the welcome 🤗

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    weird weekends says

    AWESOME POST… I love the pics and a bit jealous of your shoes in the first picture. I used to wish I could hang out with the cool kids when I was younger… Now I guess I just read their posts! I love writing but have fallen into the whirlwinds of life and not taken time to step out of the chaos. Maybe I should?… I love reading you and appreciate your words more than you know!

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      bone&silver says

      Thank you! Yes, aren’t my shoes fabulous? You don’t wanna know how much they cost me… 😬

      You’re cool!! I loved reading all your weird adventures; I’m just obsessed with my drums now, that’s all I wanna do. But yes, maybe some of us need to get back to blogging- it was such a cute active community for a long time- I’m curious to see what happens… and thanks for your reading & compliments ☺️

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    Midlife Dating Adventures says

    Love to see more of your posts again. You’re right that the world has changed. I can count on a few fingers the number of WordPress bloggers I still read, and you’re one! Congratulations on all the shows and success! Bring it all on 👏🩷

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      bone&silver says

      Thanks honey! I so miss reading your blog… I loved those times when we were all so connected, following the love adventures & giving each other heartfelt advice. *sighs . Ah well, everything changes 🙏🏼❤️

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