And so was ‘H’. I’m sure you’ve read all about our argument in Episode 9 HERE, or the making up relief in the Update HERE.
I just want to say a quick thank you to the variety of readers who commented, and offered advice or support. It truly helped me feel better. I’m sleeping more soundly because of you fellow bloggers in particular:
Piglet in Portugal, who consoled me that she’d also had a ‘dummy spit’, but that mine was worse.
DFMGhost, who told me to talk it out, and was flagging herself the same advice for the future too.
gigglingfattie, who also advocated talking, with best wishes that it sort out.
L. Rorschach over at BackInStilettosAgain reassured me that she feels exactly the same when she argues with a significant lover!
Widdershins (who met her wife online 13 years ago when they were living in Canada and Australia) told me to only give what I’m prepared to lose…
And finally, Debbie over at ForgivingConnects reminded me to honour myself first, and speak my truth.
It all helped. My real life friends helped of course. Having a good 5Rhythms dance helped. An early night with a hot water bottle helped. And my sweet, soft, brave Heart Voice helped me most of all.
Thank you everyone xxx
I think when we are so close to the coal face our virtual friends can help us look at things a litte differently.
I am pleased you are feeling better. 🙂
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Exactly 😊. Thank you 😊
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DFMGhost gives awesome advice…of course she would probably wish I’d follow it a little more…lol
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😘😘😘🌷
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😍
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Lol. Yes, she just cuts to the core of it, even if we’re not quite brave enough or ready enough to do it yet… 😊
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YAY!
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😃💅🏻
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Thank you and you’re welcome. I’m glad I helped. Anytime you need. 💖💙💚
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Thanks indeed. It’s great that we women can help each other through shit times, even if it’s just ‘virtually’. 🙏🏼
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Glad it helped. 🙂
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Totally did. And I loved knowing you’ve managed a long distance relationship too… it amplifies everything a little. 😊
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Awww, you’re welcome! Advice and support are just two of the many reasons I love blogging so much. 🙂
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Totally. Thanks so much 😃❤
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